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September 18, 2026
Tuning the Instrument

My brother, who somehow became both an engineer and a musician, has a phrase he reminds me of often. “You have to tune the instrument.” Coming from him, it makes perfect sense. Engineers know that neglected equipment eventually fails. Musicians know that

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September 11, 2026
Anchors

Twenty-five years after September 11. Twenty-nine floors up. Fifty-four people waiting on me. What anchors do you reach for when the world turns upside down?

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September 4, 2026
The Octopus Has Notes

The inner critic showed up with an editor’s visor and a clipboard. Everyone is writing about Odysseus, she said. Half right is not a note.

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August 28, 2026
They Only Do It Once

A preschool teacher declined to warn the children away from the swings: "Why? They only do it once." I gave my kids glass cups for the same reason. Discipline and disciple come from the same root — and the tuition rises with time.

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August 21, 2026
Clear

A defibrillator, a forged excuse note, and what my mother understood about love that I didn't.

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August 14, 2026
What Mary Knew

A number two graduate students invented in 1994, a man who should have had thirty more years, and a girl who was given no details at all.

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August 7, 2026
Tied to the Mast

A dog leash, a dishwasher drawer, and the only time Odysseus plans ahead.

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July 31, 2026
Uncomfortable Silence

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July 24, 2026
My Octopus Can Beat Up Yours

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July 18, 2026
We All Speak Soccer Now

In 2005 I visited South Africa, and as part of the trip we took a jeep up the Sani Pass into Lesotho, the highest plain in sub-Saharan Africa. There I met a woman who lived in an isolated rondavel with her

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July 17, 2026
The Holy Fool

I grew up hearing Boudreaux jokes—usually from Uncle Bubba or my pawpaw, who’d been waiting all evening for someone to give him an opening. If you’re not from Southeast Louisiana, you might mistake them for Cajun versions of the

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July 10, 2026
Context

I have never once been late because I am disorganized. At least not according to me. There is always a reason. Traffic. Construction. A phone call. An emergency. Something unexpected. If I’m late, I can immediately produce a detailed explanation involving

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